Puffy

How can I not react to other's life decisions so irrationally?

When it comes to other people you care about you can't judge them if you don't expect to be judged in return for your own actions. It is not our place to judge others. They are on their own path and their own life, you have yours as well. When you feel upset or emotionally hurt, it is because you were hoping to overlap your path with theirs and what you wanted did not get fulfilled. It is more important to remember that each moment in life that passes is filled with countless choices. Choices. We chose how to react and what to do in our life. Sometimes it will be in response to what someone does, but in the end, it is all meant to be. The path you are on, does not waiver with bad decisions, for it is those decisions that will be the result of what happens next. Following our path is not an easy task, for it would not be worth it. Gaze into the dream that is the future, but root yourself into the ground as of present. You are here now, living. Share your concerns but in an observational standpoint. Take a moment and breathe. This is not your life. You are your life. Make your own choices.